You Don’t Have a Work Problem

Here’s the deal. I took some time really searching what I wanted to share with the world. If you follow me personally, you will know-I HATE marketing. Like I despise it. I hate that people use words to try to trick people into believing that the key to happiness is buying what I am selling to you. it feels shady. It feels empty. And frankly it just doesn’t feel GOOD.

I’ve known for a very long time that I wanted to educate hairstylists to help them become better. I see so many issues that I think I could help solve but every time I go to do something, I start it and again, it just does not feel right. However, over the past several months…maybe even close to a year now I have really taken time to do some “soul searching” and what I have finally realized has literally shaken me to my core.

I have invested so much time and money into courses and education to get my skillset better as a hairstylist. I have invested in courses that tell me they will help me understand my business so I can continue to move forward. I have followed routines that were supposed to change my life to a T. But no matter what, I have never actually reached the goals I have wanted to reach. I never could figure it out. Like why can other people have what I can’t have? What is different about them? Why are they special? And then I started to use those questions as my stories. I am not the lucky one. I am not the girl who has good things happen to them. I was not created for those things. I need to just be thankful for what I have in front of me and stop worrying about what I don’t have. I am selfish. I am greedy. I am not pretty enough. I wasn’t born into a life that those things happen in.

Sound familiar?

I have been stuck on these stories on repeat for years. I can have success….but only so much. I can have fun but only so much. I can be loved…but only so much. I can have a toned body…but only so toned. Literally the list goes on and on.

And here’s the thing that finally clicked:

I can do anything anyone tells me to do….ANYTHING that has lead someone else done a path to success but if I DO NOT BELIEVE I AM WORTHY OF THAT SUCCESS I will NEVER achieve any of the goals I have for myself.

You guys. I have spent YEARS waking up earlier than the world to get workouts in. I have spent YEARS tracking the food I put into my mouth and the steps I take, but I stay pretty consistently the same because I always end up sabotaging the progress and giving up and starting all over again. I have spent YEARS trying to market to the perfect client only to have clients reach out and get flustered on the phone when I go to schedule their appointment. I have spent YEARS learning how to do hair well. All of this training and time should equate to SOMETHING for me. And it does….but it doesn’t give me what I am looking for because I have never really believed I deserve what I want.

Maybe you are like me and you have TRIED IT ALL. You have done everything everyone has told you to do yet you’re still on the sidelines cheering everyone else on as they get to have the exact success you’ve been dreaming of and you wonder to yourself when your time will be.

Well friend, it is YOUR time. It has always been your time. It’s just time you and I figure out how you can believe it is your time!

So here’s the scoop. I am destined to help people. I am destined to make a difference. But maybe the difference I am destined to make is so much different than I believe it was over the last several years. I believed I was supposed to be up on a stage telling people how to do amazing hair, but what I have realized is that I am SO much more than hair and I want to help WOMEN not just hairstylists.

Believing you are WORTHY sounds too easy, right? But I know it is far harder than you realize. Right now I am sure you are holding onto stories that if you actually sat down and faced them you would realize actually are you telling yourself you are not worthy of what you want because of whatever story you are holding onto.

If there is anything I want you to take from this, I want you to know you don’t have a work problem-you have a BELIEF problem and I want to help you change what you believe is possible for you!

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